Just curious.
I know I'm an outlier, but where do I fit into this?
Dirt poor, childhood runaway, literally lived in a crackhouse. Corner kid, mule, all that.
So the reason I was able to finish high school, and keep clean enough to join the Military and get out before I OD'd or got shot (and in case you think I'm exaggerating, Jeff and Kurt OD'd, Kurt while I was sitting there, Ben got shot, 3 times in the head on a bad drug deal) was because I am... White.
Herschel (black) lived 3 blocks away. Never an arrest, never used drugs, off to college. Dad was a pharmacist, if I remember correctly?
You can walk safely, Doreena, and no offense here, because of where you live and the police presence.
I can take you 2 hours from where I live to a place where you will 100% be robbed and probably raped before you make it a mile. Because it happens there, all the time.
It happens here, and Madison ain't bad. A very liberal, mixed community. Same school, same financial situation, black dropout rate, pushing 50%.
It's cultural.
I stayed in school, and you bet allowances where made because of my situation. I missed a lot of school. I got in fights because sometimes, I just smelled bad. Lol, that's the truth, I wish it wasn't. I didn't like it being rubbed in my face.
People make a choice, to fight through it, or go the easy route, and sling dope on the corner. White, black, whatever, people make choices, and from my perspective, they make informed choices.
Being white is a good thing in the USA. No doubt. But you can still F it up. And being black has some disadvantages. But you can still win out.
It all seems pretty equal to me.